There seems to be this huge stigma in the world, the great
'Unspoken'. What I'm talking about is the silence on money. Anything to do with money or personal finances is taboo.
So what's the deal, why don't people talk about money? I think it is because of this need of ours to self sufficient - oh, and of course to complain. What? Yes, we need money to eat, to sleep in a bed, and to do all the wonderful other things that money can buy. And somehow, we end up without money and we have to ask for it. Tada, we are not self sufficient anymore. And the people that have it, don't want to talk about it to those who don't (have money) because then they will be asked to help. Or people are sometimes just afraid to admit they are somewhat (or totally) incompetent - and I'm not excluding myself here.
Its all about protecting your own. That's why people hesitate to tell you how much they are earning. It is to avoid the inevitable "Why don't you buy it, you've got the money?" And we all like to compare ourselves to our peers - financially and otherwise. And if they get more than us we tend to belittle them or if we earn more, we become smug.
But staying silent, for me, will defeat the whole purpose of this blog - to increase my money and financial literacy. Yes, but I press forward anyway.
So if you know me personally, don't tell anyone about my financial numbers or any other sensitive information :) Also, don't tell me that you
know, sometimes ignorance IS bliss (unless you are willing to reciprocate or you think you can learn something from me).
So from now on I will be open about my finances with one caveat:
I believe everyone is responsible for their own financial situation and to make excuses or belittle others for wanting/improving their finances is paramount to writing your own financial eulogy. So die a happy death!
Now that I got that out of the way...let the journey of a thousand miles begin (or continue)...
Regards
Leon
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